Understanding the Divorce Bill: Insights from A HK-based Attorney Jaeray Velasco S9 EP4

In this enlightening episode of the Sexytime Podcast, hosts Ava and Belle welcome Jaeray Velasco, a family and matrimonial lawyer based in Hong Kong. Jaeray provides a deep dive into the intricacies of family law, the importance of the divorce bill in the Philippines, and the challenges faced by those navigating divorce. The discussion covers practical advice, real-life cases, and the emotional aspects of divorce, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding marital separation's legal and personal dimensions.

Episode Highlights:

  • The Importance of the Divorce Bill in the Philippines (00:02:00) Discussion on the current state of the divorce bill in the Philippines and its significance for those in abusive or unsustainable marriages.
  • Navigating Family Law in Hong Kong (00:03:23) Jaeray explains the principles of equitable distribution of assets and the case-by-case approach in Hong Kong's legal system. Insights on maintenance and alimony calculations without a fixed formula.
  • Prenuptial Agreements (00:05:00) The role of prenups in Hong Kong, their enforceability, and how they can protect assets and inheritance.
  • Advice for Those Considering Divorce (00:08:44) Practical steps for individuals considering divorce, including the importance of legal consultation and understanding one’s rights and obligations. Challenges and Case Examples Real-life cases Jaeray has handled, including complex relocation cases and high-stakes financial disputes.
  • Impact on Children and Co-Parenting (00:23:00) The psychological effects of divorce on children and the importance of co-parenting courses and maintaining amicable relationships for the children’s well-being.
  • The Reality of Divorce in Different Countries (00:29:00) Comparing divorce laws and societal attitudes between the Philippines and Hong Kong.The necessity for legal reforms in the Philippines to make divorce more accessible and less acrimonious.
  • Tips for Amicable Separation (00:40:11) Strategies for achieving a civil divorce, including mediation and focusing on the best interests of the children.

Key Quotes:

1. "People should have a choice as to whether or not they stay in a marriage." (00:16:49)

2. "Your marriage might be broken, but you're still the parents of your children." (00:32:00)

3. "Forget about your relationship going back to where it started; think about how to move forward." (00:40:35)

 

Links and Resources:

  • Jaeray Velasco Contact Information:

Email: jaeray.velasco@paynevelasco.com

  • Email Us: thesexytimepodcast@gmail.com