Quickie Q&A with Belle and Ava: Fan Mail on Sex & Relationships S9 EP5

 

In this lively Quickie Q&A episode, Belle and Ava tackle listener questions about love, sex, and relationships. From addressing sexual arousal and the challenges of maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships to dealing with breakups and the complexities of modern dating, this episode offers candid advice and relatable insights. Whether struggling with a lack of affection from your partner or navigating the dating scene post-breakup, Belle and Ava provide thoughtful and practical guidance.

 

Episode Highlights:

1. Addressing Sexual Desire and Arousal (00:02:00)

- A listener asks how to stop sexual desire and arousal, prompting a discussion on the importance of embracing one's sexuality and the role of self-pleasure in maintaining hormonal balance.

 

2. Dealing with an Unhappy Relationship (00:04:21)

- A new mom struggles with a lack of affection from her partner and questions whether it's a red flag. Belle and Ava discuss the importance of communication, weighing pros and cons, and considering co-parenting as an option.

 

3. Maintaining Intimacy in Long-Term Marriages (00:14:00)

- A 46-year-old listener from NYC shares her experience of a 24-year marriage with no sexual activity. Belle and Ava suggest ways to reignite intimacy, including a staycation, nostalgic conversations, and physical affection exercises.

 

4. Navigating a Vanilla Relationship (00:19:10)

- A listener seeks advice on how to introduce foreplay and deeper intimacy into her relationship. Belle and Ava recommend practical steps like improving oral hygiene, using lubricants, and open communication.

 

5. Moving On from a Long-Term Relationship (00:23:42)

- A listener in Singapore struggles to move on from a seven-year relationship that ended due to infidelity. Belle and Ava provide insights on cutting off communication, exploring new relationships, and putting oneself out there.

 

Key Quotes:

1. "People should have a choice as to whether or not they stay in a marriage." - Ava (00:16:49)

2. "Having a sex life is work, and having that relationship and intimacy takes work." - Belle (00:17:44)

3. "If you're unhappy in a relationship, it's important to evaluate if it's something that can be worked on or if it's time to move on." - Ava (00:06:00)

 

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