Love Without Judgment: Alan Segui on Coming Out, Online Dating, and Authentic Relationships S9 EP7
Belle and Ava chat with Alan Segui, the creative director of Jellytime. Alan shares his journey of coming out, his experiences with online dating, and his current relationship. He also discusses his work at Jellytime and the importance of open conversations about sex and relationships.
Episode Highlights:
1. Alan's Background (00:02:02)
- Originally from Bicol, moved to Manila
- Commercial and fashion photographer
- Creative director for Jellytime
2. Coming Out Story (00:04:00)
- Always knew he was gay from an early age
- Came out publicly during college via Facebook
3. Family Reactions (00:08:41)
- Grandmother initially had difficulty accepting
- Eventually became supportive of Alan's relationships
4. Online Dating Experiences (00:18:32)
- Met current boyfriend on Tinder
- Advice for people using dating apps
5. Current Relationship (00:23:58)
- Discusses the openness and honesty in his relationship
- Importance of uplifting each other
6. Working at Jellytime (00:28:23)
- Alan's passion for Jellytime's mission
- Desire to change perceptions about sex and relationships
Key Quotes:
1. "I never really delayed that into relationships. I'm not like, a short-term kind of person." - Alan (00:17:08)
2. "I feel like I never feel judged when I'm around him. I could say the most awful things or do the most awful things." - Alan (00:23:58)
3. "I love everything that Jellytime stands for and where we're going." - Alan (00:29:00)
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